It can be difficult to understand what’s next in your unique situation as you consider abortion. If your relationship with your partner is complicated, you may wonder if you have to tell your partner you want an abortion.
In this blog, we offer some advice as you navigate this time. No matter what, know that you are not alone. Connect with our caring staff today for more answers about your pregnancy and options.
Do You Feel Safe?
We want to start this conversation around safety because that is the top priority. Your safety needs to be protected if you have any hesitation about telling your partner about this.
If you have any safety concerns with your partner, you are not obligated to share anything about your pregnancy. Talk to someone you trust about your pregnancy options.
Contact the National Domestic Violence Hotline for immediate help and support. You are not alone.
Telling Your Partner
Abortion is a major pregnancy decision that will impact you and your partner. When sharing which options you’re considering, do your best to explain why you’re considering abortion and answer any questions that he may have.
Do your best to plan emotionally and practically before going into the conversation. This will help you feel better prepared to navigate the situation.
Also, timing matters. Think about a good time to have this conversation, like during the weekend or a night when your partner is off work. Choose a private setting where you both feel comfortable and not distracted.
Listen to Your Partner’s Input
Even if you are very much leaning towards abortion right now, it’s still important to communicate with your partner. Hear him out and ask questions you might have. He may surprise you with a new perspective.
Even though you have the final say, this pregnancy decision will impact your partner, too. Take time to consider his feelings and input.
Get More Clarity
Before making your decision, confirm your pregnancy with no-cost medical-grade pregnancy tests. We also offer on-site ultrasounds to women who qualify.
Once you’ve confirmed your pregnancy with us, we’re here to walk you through more information about abortion and all your pregnancy options.
Contact us today to schedule a no-cost appointment. We’re here for you!
Choices Family Resource Center does not provide or refer for abortions.